I feel he is a loser. what to do?

i have been in love with a guy for around 5.5 years. he speaks well in all topics that dont require intellect. but in intellectual topics he is dumb!! but i had a lot of consideration for him due to his good character. but 1 year back i found out he has cheated me by telling lies about his family business, caste and all that.... even then i considered him as he said "one bcoz i wanted u to love me, i lied". but he is still not settled and he is still searching a job. i feel he is a loser... what to do now ???